Correct build order for MIT krb5 and ssh

[Michael D. Norwick]

I'm not sure if this is the right group for this question, but I am
still fairly new to FreeBSD so I thought I would start here first.
I have been trying to get a working MIT Kerberos KDC on a server running
6.1-Release.  I have been able to keep the heimdal version from being
built during several past 'make worlds' and I have compiled and
installed MIT krb5 from /usr/ports (current per portmanager).  I have
been getting an error tryiing to start sshd (also built from
/usr/ports), it complains about not finding 'libkrb5.so.8' then exits. 
I have been able to start the KDC but have not gotten much further as I
would like to fix the ssh problem first.  My questions are as follows:
1.  Is libkrb5.so.8 a heimdal library?
2.  Which source directories are the correct ones to use,
/usr/src/kerberos - /usr/src/secure, or /usr/ports/security/krb5 -
/usr/ports/security/openssh?
3.  Why are there two different directories i.e; /usr/src and /usr/ports
for the same source?
4.  How do I get 'kerberized' ssh and give configure directives to the
krb5 make to include GSSAPI support?
5.  Is there a certain build order for MIT kerberos and openssh?

I have read both the Handbook and the 'Complete' book on this subject
and have not been able to glean enough information to get me going,
Google didn't help much either.  I have 6 Debian clients, 2 WinXP
clients, and 1 Debian KDC slave and wanted this machine to be an MIT-KDC
master and yet avoid the apparent 'kadmin' server incompatibility
between Heimdal and MIT Kerberos (which all the Debian clients run).  I
am also very comfortable with the MIT version.  Any words of wisdom
would be greatly appreciated.

Michael