RealTek 8168/8111 does not come up on 13.0-STABLE GENERIC amd64

From: Axel Rau <Axel.Rau_at_Chaos1.DE>
Date: Mon, 13 Dec 2021 12:59:18 UTC
Hi all,

this is a ghostbsd box with GhostBSD 21.11.24 fresh installed.
The re0 is flapping during startup and stays down on shutdown/boot
When I do a reboot, it comes up.

I attach one dmsesg for each case.

Any help appreciated,
Axel