wake-on-lan lost from rpi4 (works on rpi3)

From: Ronald Klop <ronald-lists_at_klop.ws>
Date: Tue, 25 Oct 2022 11:57:44 UTC 
Hi,

When I do "wake ue0 `cat /home/ronald/freenas.ethernet `" on my RPI3B+ my NAS boots and tcpdump shows the following line on my rpi3 as well as on my router.
13:39:44.344111 IPX 00217046.6c:da:00:21:70:46.6cda > 00217046.6c:da:00:21:70:46.6cda: ipx-#6cda 65505

When I do "wake genet0 `cat /home/ronald/freenas.ethernet `" on my RPI4 my NAS does not boot and tcpdump only show this on my rpi4 and *not* on my router.
13:37:26.448251 IPX 00217046.6c:da:00:21:70:46.6cda > 00217046.6c:da:00:21:70:46.6cda: ipx-#6cda 65505

Firewall ipfw does not indicate that it blocks anything.

RPI4 runs:
FreeBSD rpi4 14.0-CURRENT FreeBSD 14.0-CURRENT #11 main-4f0c9b76cf: Sat Aug 13 23:59:19 CEST 2022     ronald@rpi4:/home/ronald/dev/obj/home/ronald/dev/freebsd/arm64.aarch64/sys/GENERIC-NODEBUG arm64

genet0: flags=8943<UP,BROADCAST,RUNNING,PROMISC,SIMPLEX,MULTICAST> metric 0 mtu 1500
    options=68000b<RXCSUM,TXCSUM,VLAN_MTU,LINKSTATE,RXCSUM_IPV6,TXCSUM_IPV6>


RPI3 runs:
FreeBSD rpi3 13.1-RELEASE-p2 FreeBSD 13.1-RELEASE-p2 GENERIC arm64

ue0: flags=8943<UP,BROADCAST,RUNNING,PROMISC,SIMPLEX,MULTICAST> metric 0 mtu 1500
    options=80009<RXCSUM,VLAN_MTU,LINKSTATE>


Does genet0 not support these packages?
What can prevent this packet to go on the ethernet while tcpdump still shows it is outgoing on the interface?
genet0 does have a vlan configured connected to a bridge0 for some jails
vlan3: flags=8943<UP,BROADCAST,RUNNING,PROMISC,SIMPLEX,MULTICAST> metric 0 mtu 1500
    options=80000<LINKSTATE>
    groups: vlan
    vlan: 3 vlanproto: 802.1q vlanpcp: 0 parent interface: genet0

ue0 is itself connected to a bridge0

Regards,
Ronald.